Psalm 118 repeatedly tells us to give thanks to God because “his
mercy endures forever.” Since it is Merciful Monday, you can imagine that I am
very happy to write about God’s mercy! J And this message is so
timely because it is closely related to a topic that we have been discussing in
church.
MERCY is defined as “compassion or forbearance shown
especially to an offender or to one subject to one's power; lenient or
compassionate treatment of those in distress; a blessing that is an act of
divine favor or compassion.” Similarly,
GRACE is defined as “unmerited
divine assistance given humans for their regeneration or sanctification; a
virtue coming from God; disposition to or an act or instance of kindness,
courtesy, or clemency.” When I think of mercy, I always think of grace, and
vice versa. The two really do go hand in hand.
If you murdered 10 children, most would deem the appropriate
consequence to be at least, life in prison without parole. So if a judge
decided to just give you just probation, or even grant you a reprieve, there
would be uproar because the general consensus would be that the decision was
unfair or unjust.
Similarly, when we
sin against God, our actions have appropriate consequences. The Bible says that
“the wages of sin is death,” meaning that the consequence to committing a sin
of any kind is death—not death as we understand it, but spiritual death (which
could also have physical, mental, and emotional repercussions) and damnation to
Hell. Luckily, God is the ultimate judge and HE IS MERCIFUL. So when we commit
sins that should have horrible consequences, God often treats us far more leniently
than we deserve. He does chastise us, but not as harshly as he should. Instead,
he uses these mistakes as opportunities to show us that we need Him and draw us
closer to Him. He is like that judge, granting probation when we deserve life
imprisonment.
Not only is he merciful, but HIS MERCY ENDURES FOREVER. It
withstands the test of time because God never dies, sleeps or slumbers. And once
he grants you a reprieve for your sin, he does not bring it up later and try to
punish you for it. Hebrews 8:12 says, “For I will be merciful to their
iniquities, And their sins will
I remember no more.”
This is a concept
that can be hard to wrap your head around because as humans, we are so obsessed
with punishing people as WE see fit. When your boyfriend forgets your birthday,
you scream at him and then punish him by doing the same thing on his birthday 5
months later. When your friend yells at you for doing something stupid (as a
friend sometimes should), you punish them by not talking them for two weeks.
When a crazy person beats up your cousin, you show up at their house with 5
others to beat them up.
Was there ever a
time when you thought to show mercy towards someone but did not? Why not?
I think that we punish
people thinking that “justice” will empower us, take away the hurt from being
wronged, and bring us peace, but in the end it does not. God’s model of
enduring mercy shows me that mercy can even be the best option. The weapons of
our warfare are not carnal so why should we come back at people in the manner
that they come at us? Sometimes, like God, you just have to dole out a little
bit of mercy and trust that the Lord will handle the situation, and that
whoever wronged you one day see what they did wrong. Luke 6:38 says, “Give, and
you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full--pressed down, shaken
together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The
amount you give will determine the amount you get back.” The amount of mercy
that you give will determine the amount that you get back, so don’t always feel
like you have to have the last punishing word in the argument or penalize people
that do you wrong. And when you show mercy to others, this shows your
acknowledgement and thankfulness to God. Furthermore, it makes room in your
heart for God’s love and more of His virtues, which are far better than your
own.
Merciful Mondays: Jael
“For the Lord your God is a merciful God; he will not abandon you or destroy you or forget the solemn covenant he made with your ancestors.” Deuteronomy 4:31